How can you tell that a is self adsorbed

If you are dating a guy who pays litle compliment to you , spend most of the time in the gym , or is very strict with how he dresses,eats, wash and irons his clothes and acts around people .This  are some signs of a men whose world evolves around himself .Don t get me wrong here, he loves you but he just dosent know how to show or tell you . Sometimes this may push out the lady or create gaps in relationships .Listed below are the clues to tell if a men is self centered thus lacking appreciation for his lady or girlfriend.

1. Photos. 

In a relationship its about us not me, one of the thing that stands out is the photos, take time to see his phone. Most times his own photo will be on the phones wallpaper or screen saver. His Facebook and instagram Profile picture will definitely be him and his abs. I'm not saying its not good to use such picture but this is one of the things that will indicate that our boyfriend or man is self centered on him.

2.Masculinity .  

He will constantly ask your views on how his abs and muscles look . Sometimes when you give a good  critic he will feel bad and then you may try to cheer him and give false compliments back. If you go to public places like the beach or down the street for a walk he will probably wear something that will reveal his man abs or sometimes he goes shirtless .This is the manes most man want, muscles and if a women looks at them and gives a tiny compliment this will make him float in space..

3.Reputation 

He doesn't want responsibility, if any thing goes wrong its the womens fault .This is worse when its in front of the family and friends or workmates. From small things like fogeting to turn off the tap and when you confront him in front of these people instead of saying sorry and accepting resposibility he would give and excuse and make you feel guilty of even raising it up. Its all about his reputaion .

4.Work. Sometimes his just so absorbed in work he forgets your appointment with him, or he forgets to come pick you up from work  so he send a cab instead .Its all about his promotion and work ,there is no room for mistake .He only buys you expensive outfits and gifts not because its Christmas but because you have to wear to his work function so his workmates could see. 

There are lot of things to mention but this are the few that I have to share.  if you notice that the majority of this is being fulfilled by tour man then you man is self centered and absorbed to his own glory.You may either stop and take time to realize whether to consider your needs or try pretending while being with him..